I’m sure lots of you are reeling from this week. I know I am. It all just feels like a really terrible, really repetitive nightmare. How is this happening…again? Why has nothing changed? I keep wondering this week – what … Read More
When we first moved to the Bay Area (and before, when we lived in Washington DC and Philadelphia), I hunted around tons and tons of websites, … Read More
Are you visiting Yosemite with kids but have a limited amount of time? Here’s a one-day itinerary with tips on Yosemite lodging, as well as some family-friendly highlights of things to do in Yosemite Valley. Let’s … Read More
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We’ve been extraordinarily lucky to do a good deal of international travel, mostly with kids in tow. Since it feels a little overwhelming to go back through and document everything in order, I thought I’d start a “Wanderlust Wednesdays” … Read More
Vasona is such a gem of the South Bay area. It’s a pretty big park, complete with a lake, lots of grassy areas, and an excellent holiday lights display in December (more on that below). It also provides access to … Read More
I kind of have a thing for science museums. What can I say, I’m a sucker for hands-on educational outlets that are simultaneously super fun for my kids. 😉 The Tech Museum in San Jose is the perfect spot for … Read More
When we first moved to the Bay Area just under two years ago, we lived in San Francisco for two months. It was WONDERFUL. Had it not been a two hour commute – each way – for my husband … Read More
The Fitzgerald Marine Reserve was such a fun adventure over winter break. It’s just under an hour from our place in the South Bay, so it was a perfect day trip for a few hours. Since it was a little … Read More
Stanford University has a terrific collection (and free!) spread over several museums. We’ve visited the Cantor a couple different times. It’s open during the day, of course, but also stays open late on Thursday evenings, so it’s great for a … Read More
We were all surprised by just how much we loved the Asian Art Museum. While my family is Indian, I tend to prefer science-y and hands-on museums in addition to those with Western religious art. Still, we all found this … Read More
We were excited to check out some long concrete slides in a tiny park not far from Twin Peaks. Sadly, we didn’t check the hours beforehand…because it never occurred to me that they would have hours. Rookie mistake – city … Read More
I’m sure lots of you are reeling from this week. I know I am. It all just feels like a really terrible, really repetitive nightmare. How is this happening…again? Why has nothing changed?
I keep wondering this week – what can I do? How can I contribute, improve, provide a haven for my children and others around me? I feel like one of the most difficult things for me this week is fighting FEAR. Fear that my children will be hurt, fear that evil is lurking in the corners all around me – in my neighborhood, in our schools, in our community.
But we can’t live in fear. It’s so easy to believe that there is more evil than good in our world today, but that’s just not true. There is SO MUCH goodness in our world. Much as the forces of this last week may try to make us believe otherwise, I believe people are inherently good. Both at home and through the course of our travels, we’ve met so many people who are kind, who are generous, who show love.
When Dan was working for the FBI, he heard former Directory Comey once give a speech about how it is difficult to “hate up close.” When we get to know people, when we see their interests and their families and their hearts, it’s hard to hate and easy to love.
I realized one very small thing I can do is to share the goodness we see in the people that we meet. I want to share stories of kindness, stories of love, stories of peace. I hope these stories lift your hearts and fill you with hope as they have for me.
It only seems right to start with a story from my own family. Those of you who know me will likely have heard this story before, but I hope you’ll indulge me in re-sharing something dear to my heart.
When my mom was a little girl 7-year-old girl, she once went on a field trip to the Lalbagh Botanical Gardens in Bangalore, India. It was November 14th, the birthdate of Jawaharlal Nehru, the first Prime Minister of India. Many different classes and schools had come to celebrate the occasion. With so many kids, my mom got separated from her class and missed the bus to return home.
As she sat crying, a man on a bicycle saw her and asked what was the matter. She explained that she’d gotten lost, and that her home was far on the other side of the sprawling city. He offered to take her back on his bicycle, but she had no idea how to get back. He asked if she knew of any landmarks near her home. At that, she perked up and said the large Ganesha temple was very close to her home, and that if he could take her there, she would know how to direct him to her house.
So they set off, she with her her eyes focused on her special temple, and he focused on helping a little girl back to her family.
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